Yes, well, not everyone can forgive in these circumstances. My father was in the Navy during WW2, and I was about 13 and we went to Hawaii, and visited the memorial at Pearl Harbor. There were a lot (half the folks there when we visited) of Japanese tourists there as well. I will never forget his fully verbalized outloud comment: "they are here looking at the handy work of their parents". Some things run deep, and I knew even then there was nowhere to go with that conversation because " I did not walk a mile in his shoes". At least that's one war we did not start....at least that's what we were told....